your bf just hit on me, and you girl are in la la land

I know, yeah yeah yeah. I think too much. But, its just the way i'm wired. you know?

So, this is what I want to know.
I know many ladies, including myself that have been hit on by men that are in "long committed faithful relationships." or so it seems to their ladies.

Don't get me wrong. If you are in a unhappy relationship and your genuinely wondering if that person is for you, thats one thing. BUT i'm not talking about those kinds of situations where you are expressing concern to a good friend.

I'm talking about the sleezy beezy ones.

You know what really grinds my gears? [This is my rant like Peter Griffin from Family Guy.]
Their girls have no clue.
They think that they have some muthafuckin great boyfriends or something.
They truly believe that their kid will go fly to the moon if asked, and bring back some muthafuckin stars as souvenirs.

 Little do they know that they are saying things like:
"Sigh... I dunno. I love my partner, but sometimes I wonder whats out there. You make me wonder what it would be like to be with you..." 
"I like you"
"I wish my partner was more like you"
"I can't stand my partner"
"Can I kiss you?"
"You're so much better than my partner"
"Insert any words of infidelity here..."

or just any action that is ... opposite of what seems like the definition of faithful. General hitting on other girls that aren't your girlfriend. duh. must I explain anymore? You know what i'm talking about.

These chicks have no idea what their loving, committed, such trustworthy boyfriends are doing.

But how do we know that we are any different than "those" girls?
We like to believe that we are smarter, more clever, and would "just know" if shit like that was going on.
But even Ted Bundy had girlfriends, even while he was doing his psycho sociopath fucked up shit. They had no idea.
Craigslist killer had a fiancee that stood by him because he was "the greatest guy that wouldn't hurt a fly" until the evidence was so overwhelming that she could no longer deny it.

Ok sorry, sociopath killers are extreme but my point is... as much as I want to belive in the human race, i've seen too much from my end that tells me otherwise. I know I know... Call me a pessimist, but really, i'm just being a realist.


The sad thing is, these girls may never know and their friends will never tell them. 
Why?
Because, nobody wants to be the bearer of bad news.
Why? 
Because its easier to "shoot the messenger"than to believe somebody we love is a scummy douche bag lowlife.
Why? 
Because we would rather believe a comforting lie than know the heart wrenching muthafuckin truth son!

Whats the truth?
You was in love with a fake impostor of a good human being, that eats food like a human being, and looks like a human being but poops it out through his mouth. And you ate that shit up like it was some good muthafuckin medium rare steak and lobster.

and who wants to believe that?? would you?